📢 Now I Understand WHY?!
Have you ever felt like you’re pushing uphill, wondering why everything feels harder than it should?
Or reached success and still thought, “Is this it?”
I know that feeling.
And while it’s not easy to share something this personal, I feel compelled to…
Because if it helps just one person find more ease, clarity, and joy in how they work and live... then it’s worth it.
For years, I was searching for answers.
Constantly asking: What’s my next step? How can I make this better?
I thought I had to choose.
Marketing or leadership? Strategy or personal growth? Twinlife Marketing or Twinlife Forward?
I love it all.
But the pressure to pick one thing was overwhelming.
I felt pulled in different directions, always second-guessing.
Society says: Follow a straight path. Specialise. Fit into a box.
So I tried. And I struggled.
Because deep down, that’s not me.
Over the past year, everything changed.
I took a deep dive into exploring how we are all uniquely wired…
How we work best, how we make good decisions, and how we create the greatest impact.
Through study, experimentation, and integrating powerful transformation tools, I discovered something I now call our UNIQUE BLUEPRINT.
And when we live in alignment with it, we step into our power and everything flows with more ease.
Now I understand the way to more success, more enjoyment, and more energy…and it is not by working harder!
I’ve integrated this in my life and my work - and the results are transformational:
✔ More clarity
✔ More confidence
✔ More energy
Here are three truths that have completely reshaped how I approach life and work.
💡 Number 1: I am wired to do many things at once
This is my energy. It's part of my blueprint.
Accepting and embracing it changed everything.
Just in the past month, I’ve:
Mentored talented marketers
Helped a business owner find purpose through his blueprint
Supported a marketing manager in building her own custom AI GPT
Worked with professionals to align with their energy and blueprint
And it has all flowed effortlessly.
I finally stopped forcing myself to work a certain way…and leaned into what comes naturally.
What I’ve learned? My gift is to spark growth, initiate progress, and inspire movement forward.
That’s the golden thread that runs through everything I do.
It’s also helped me understand others so much better.
Like why my twins thrive as entrepreneurs outside the school system.
Or why my husband is such a calm, steady force…with a sense of adventure.
✨ We’re all uniquely designed. When we understand that, life gets easier.
Do you know how your energy works best? Or would you like to find out?
💡 Number 2: My gut instinct is always right
When I used to recruit at Twinlife Marketing, I’d shake someone’s hand and instantly know if they were the right fit.
But I started to doubt it.
Surely it can’t be that easy, I thought.
So I ignored my gut, leaned into logic—and made worse decisions.
Now I trust my strong yes/no feeling in the moment:
✔ I don’t need to explain it.
✔ I don’t need to analyse it.
✔ I just need to listen.
Since reconnecting with my instinct:
✔ My decisions are better
✔ It takes far less energy
✔ And I can clearly say no
It’s also fascinating to see how others make decisions.
My husband and I both rely on gut instinct.
Our kids? They need time to feel their way through choices.
These insights change everything - in family dynamics, in business, and in leadership.
✨ Are you aware of how you make the best decisions? And are you choosing it?
💡 Number 3: For me to thrive, I need to respond.
Not push. Not force. Respond.
When someone brings me a challenge, I see the solution clearly. The energy flows.
But when I try to initiate from nowhere? I hit resistance.
This confused me, especially as someone who loves initiating growth and change for others.
Why couldn’t I do it for myself?
Letting go of that belief felt strange. Uncomfortable.
At first, I even felt guilty…like I was cheating the system.
But then I reframed what responding really means:
✔ It’s not passive
✔ It’s being open, present, and ready
✔ It’s recognising the right moment, and trusting my instinct to act
Since embracing this, everything feels lighter.
More aligned.
Work. Family. Life. It all flows.
✨ What do you think works best for you?
✨ The best part?
We all have a unique blueprint.
When you start living according to yours:
✔ Life makes more sense
✔ You stop fighting yourself
✔ And things begin to flow naturally
I just wanted to share this…because maybe, just maybe,
you’re also ready to understand why.
And if this speaks to you, I’d love to connect.
Whether over a casual coffee or a virtual catch-up…no strings.
Just space to explore.
Because sometimes, the smallest shift leads to the biggest change.
Here’s to growth, clarity, and trusting who we are meant to be.
Sonja